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Taking the fear out of doing video (with one simple trick)

How do you deal with fear..? Especially when you hop in front of a camera?

I just attended a 1-day event with Jack Canfield, author of ‘Chicken Soup for the Soul’ and there was this one GREAT activity Jack did with us that’s designed to help entrepreneurs get over their fears – and will help you upgrade your business mindset.

Watch, and try it out with me…​

Want practice pushing through fear and doing it anyway? Then join my Videomaking Mastermind group on Facebook where we’re all practicing doing stuff that we’re sometimes afraid of on a daily basis…

https://www.facebook.com/groups/videomakingmastermind/

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Why Fear of Missing Out will make you question everything

Today only: Why Fear of Missing Out will make you question everything and how you can put the fear of missing out into every live video you make. (see what I did there?) Don’t miss my Live Masterclass: ‘The 5 Mistakes People Make When They Go Live That Keep Them From Getting Clients’ https://www.crowdcast.io/e/5-mistakes-masterclass

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The 3 Simplest Ways to Make the Best Live Video

How to grow your audience with a weekly live Interview Series – with Carrie Clark

How to grow and engage your audience with a live weekly interview series. You can reach Carrie Clark here: https://www.speechandlanguagekids.com/

Reframe Your Fear & Resistance to Live Video

How many of you feel like fear stops you in life? It’s a constant companion, right? In this interview with Jim Holzknecht, author of “Midlife Playbook” we talk about how to confront fear and that inner voice that Jim refers to as the “inner trash talker.”

Here are the highlights from our talk:

4:20 Making the transition to create your work as your full time passion.

6:20 Willingness to go beyond your comfort zone.

8:30 The dark side of being an entrepreneur.

9:10 Reframe your procrastination: Look at your resistance not as something to beat yourself up about – but to see your resistance as some sort of dragon – and you can pick up your sword and shield and go slay the dragon…

12:30 Hitting your upper limit and pulling back

13:50 How I got over how I look on video

17:20 What to do if you want to feel really good about showing up as the person who you are on video

19:10 Complimentary Training on getting started with live video:

“Brad is really committed to giving people a voice and he has a free program called Go Live and Thrive! I went through it and it helped shift my whole relationship to this live medium and it’s really helpful with getting comfortable with your reflection and your voice.”  – Jim Holzknecht

Go Live and Thrive! Reach a bigger audience instantly with live video.

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Hate the way you look on video?

Like this video? If you want to start really loving the way you show up on camera then join the free masterclass I’ve just created:
“5 Biggest Mistakes People Make When They Go Live That Keep Them From Getting Clients”

Join the free masterclass right here – it’s FREE!
https://www.crowdcast.io/e/five-mistakes

Hate the way you look on video? How do you get comfortable in front of the camera? How do you learn to love the way you show up doing live video?

Today I want to talk about the number one thing I’m hearing most often from people that’s really holding them back from making video and especially from making live video. People are telling me again and again that they really just don’t like the way they look on camera, or they don’t like the way they sound on camera. They say, “Well I made a video and I looked at myself and you know what? I just don’t think I look that great.”

What I’m going to address is how do you learn to love the way you show up when you’re in front of the camera?

In front of the cameraWhen I was a little kid I was living in a house where all the mirrors all over the house were way up high, way above my head. By age 3 or age 4 I didn’t actually know what I looked like. At the time I had this really positive self image. In fact my hero was the western TV star Michael Landon. You probably remember Michael Landon from the show, “Little House on the Prairie.” But I remember him from an earlier western that was called, “Bonanza” and he was really handsome and he was really cool and I thought he was the best thing ever. I wanted to be like him. I wanted to be Michael Landon. And I thought that I looked like Michael Landon.

One day I went into our big bathroom and I climbed up onto the rim of our clawfoot bathtub and from there I climbed up onto the sink and above the sink there was a bathroom mirror. I stood up on the sink and balanced myself and I could see myself in the mirror…

And what I saw was this little kid with a completely shaved head and this really big forehead and a really tiny, scrunched face. I did not look anything like Michael Landon and I was horrified.

I went down, with tears in my eyes and found my mother in the kitchen. She remembers this story and actually tells this story over and over. To her credit and great wisdom she took me out bought a mirror – a big nice mirror with a wooden frame – and she hung it in my bedroom at my height so that when I got up in the morning my mirror was there. When I got dressed in the morning, I could stand in front of the mirror and get dressed. And every day I would see myself and over and over in this practice of looking in the mirror and seeing myself, I got really used to who I was. In fact not only did I get used to who I was, I really fell in love with my reflection and who I was.

Honestly, I used to do stuff like dance in front of the mirror and then I would hold up a hair brush and pretend it was a microphone. And I would sing rock songs in front of the mirror. And I became a rockstar – to myself. And my reflection of me was rockstar.

This really works. Anyone can do this. I’m sure you’ve had some experience of looking at yourself in the mirror and feeling that self love. And if you haven’t, trust me, try it. This is a life skill. With this kind of practice, you can learn to love how you show up in the mirror.

The really good news is that right now, with all of these rectangular smartphone things, we now carry a mirror in our pocket everywhere we go. And there’s nothing better or easier that you can do than pull out your phone, turn on the camera, (remember to turn is sideways) and hit record. And talk to yourself. You don’t have to try and broadcast anywhere, but just make a recording and then look at that recording. And then tomorrow do it again. And the next day keep on going. With this practice, the same as what I experienced growing up, you will not only get used to look and the way you show up and the way you sound, but you will learn to love the way you look and sound. You’ll actually learn to love the person who your are when you’re showing up.

The other good news – and this is specifically to doing live video – when you go live no one out there expects you to be perfect. They don’t expect you to be a rockstar. They expect you to be yourself. And the more you show up as yourself, the more they are going to resonate with you. What happens is that you go live and people go, “I like this!” I promise you by doing this, by pulling out your phone, hitting record, going live, people will like your thing, they will comment, they will say, “You’re awesome!” And what will happen is that you’ll start believing it.

You’ll be thinking, “Wow! People think I’m awesome.”

Over time you will start feeling, “I am really doing something. I’m showing up as who I am. I’m offering people something that is valuable to them and they’re appreciating it.” And that’s as far as you need to go. The more you do that the more you realize you are doing it.

And if you’d like to know a good place to start, I’d like to invite you to a free masterclass I’ve created called “5 Biggest Mistakes People Make When They Go Live That Keep Them From Getting Clients” where you’ll start really loving the way you show up on camera. You can join right here – it’s FREE!

https://www.crowdcast.io/e/five-mistakes

Here’s to loving the way you show up and getting completely comfortable in front of the camera…

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How To Live Stream An Event The Right Way

How do you engage your online audience when you want to live stream an event? I’ve been streaming several live events around Boston and while I’ve been learning a lot in the process, I see one big problem.

When you organize a live event, like a workshop or presentation, it’s a ton of work to fill the room!!! If you’ve managed to attract 100 people – that’s a great success!!

The problem is that no matter how big your event, only so many people can fit in the room which limits how fast your audience can grow and keep your event sustainable.

But, what if you could take advantage of all the work you’ve done and reach an audience 10 times the size…?

Going live is a very good idea to give your event more visibility – but there are some very specific things you can do that will make it all the more appealing to your online audience. Because your online audience needs a certain kind of engagement that’s going to attract them and draw them in.

One event that I’ve been going to is called the Boston Speaker Series and it’s hosted by my friend, Kit Pang. It’s a fabulous event. It’s very interactive and I’ve started going there and live streaming it.

At his last event what Kit did to attract his online viewers was to start his live stream with his phone aimed at himself on a selfie stick while he was talking to his in-real-life audience – making sure that the online viewers could see both him and the audience. He got them to practice the opening with them cheering and then he went live and had them all cheer again as the start of his live stream. (watch the video above to see how well this worked)

That’s step #1 in how to live stream an event: Do something really lively and interactive with your audience at the very start of your Facebook live so that anyone who sees it, whether they’re seeing live or seeing it on the replay, will be drawn in immediately and be caught up by this attention-getting thing that you’re doing. Plus, if you’ve done the work to get 100 people in the room, you want to share their energy and enthusiasm for your event.

The next thing that we did was that I got up in front of the group and I challenged them into seeing how many more people could we attract to the event. I told them to pull out their phones and go to Facebook – and the page where the live stream was happening (facebook.com/awesomevideomakers). Then I asked them to hit the share button, make a comment and hit the like button.

This helps in a few ways. Every person who shares the stream will have the live event showing up on their feed – which means that it can be seen by their friends! So, you’re using your audience in the room to grow your audience on Facebook. And when you are getting a lot of likes and comments Facebook rewards you by making your live stream appear to more people. Facebook loves live video and especially live video that has a lot of interaction in the form of likes and comments. So, it’s important to continue to do interactive things with your online audience – getting them to comment – all the way through your event. (note: you can do this even if you have hardly anyone watching live because people watching the replay will leave comments.

The day of the event we reached over 2,800 people and the video had over 1,000 views. You can watch the whole video here:

When you’ve done all the work (and it’s a lot!) to create a live event don’t miss your chance to capitalize on your efforts to reach an even larger audience – who you can start engaging with. There’s a lot to know about how best to live stream an event – which is why I have a FREE Videomaking Mastermind Group on Facebook where you can share videos you’ve made and learn from myself and other members of the group. Please join us there and I’ll see you in the videos you’re making!

>>Videomaking Mastermind<<

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How getting your feet wet every day will grow your business – the entrepreneurs guide to taking the plunge

 

Sometimes lessons in what it takes to help your business grow come from the most unlikely places – like getting your feet wet.

Take the plunge

I used to work for Outward Bound. Every morning we jumped in the ocean. It was always cold. Really cold. And yet we made everyone take the plunge. There was only one way to get used to it.

Do it every day.

At first it seemed like maybe this really wasn’t such a good idea. But by jumping in every day, it became normal. We didn’t just turn it into a daily practice, we made jumping in the ocean part of our cultural identity. When we each agreed to take the plunge, we became members of a tribe who were people of the water. We jumped in every day because we now believed that this was how we how we thrived.

It sounds crazy. It was crazy. No matter the weather, no matter how cold, we jumped in all the way.

Getting your feet wet as a daily practice

Since then I’ve seen first hand how developing a regular practice of ‘getting your feet wet’ works really well for growing your business.

We tend to develop our new stuff in a closet. Musicians call this ‘woodshedding’ – as in a long period of practicing your instrument out back in the wood shed so no one can see or hear you until you’re good enough.

This is not the way to grow your thriving enterprise. If you spend six months developing your next big project on your own, you may well find that you’ve spent all that time on something that no-one cares about.

You need to take the plunge with your new projects.

Jump in – get your feet wet – every day. I know. You’re not quite ready yet. It could be really cold!!

But, if you share some small part of what you’re working on you’ll get feedback right away.

Show Your Work

You may have noticed that this site is all about making videos. So what can you do with video as a daily practice?

You can show your work.

It’s all about reaching out to those you want to connect with. And you know what? If you start sharing part of your work each day you’ll actually start changing your identity. You’ll move from someone who’s thinking about doing something to someone who’s doing stuff.

The art of a daily share-your-work practice is about experimenting your way to success – to stop planning and start acting.

If you’re thinking about plunging in yourself you may be wondering what exactly does it look like?

Here are some helpful guidelines:

1. Plunging has three goals: showcase your creative process, share your vision, learn something from your audience.
2. It gets your feet wet right now. There’s no waiting around. Take a deep breath and… jump.
3. It’s simple.
4. It gets your blood going & moves you out of your comfort zone.
5. It puts you out there in front of your audience.
6. It’s an opportunity for growth.

Sharing early, messy versions of your work can be scary – you will meet your resistance – and you may find your audience doesn’t want what you’re creating.

But that’s how you learn.

And better to learn quickly, with others engaged with you along the way so you can jump in again. (if you fall off your horse, the best thing is to get right back up in the saddle again)

What plunging is not

1. It’s not deciding something. It’s deciding and then doing it.
2. It’s not staying in the closet. It puts you in front of your audience.
3. It’s not about sharing only with your friends and family. You need to jump out in front of the people you most want to impact and serve.
4. It’s not taking a class. You want to be sharing your gifts with the world. Now!

The benefits to getting your feet wet? You’ll avoid costly mistakes. You’ll learn what really works. You’ll do something now. Think for a moment about what getting your feet wet looks like for you. What action can you take that meets the six stages of plunging above?

Here’s how to get started. Just fill in the blanks…

My Next Plunge is: ____________________ (short phrase)
Timeline/deadline: ____________________
Learning Goal: ____________________

Want to jump in with support from others?

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The 5 Mistakes You’re Making With Facebook Live That’s Costing You Business

Here’s a recent interview where I’m taking about the biggest Facebook Live Mistakes people make when they go live that keep them from growing their audience and growing their business.  I was interviewed by Haley Gray, who is a business coach for women entrepreneurs and the founder of Leadership Girl. (She has a huge, active community of business women on Facebook with over 60,000 members!)

Haley’s hosting a 3-day event in North Carolina called Leadership Girl Summit. (I’ll be one of the featured speakers there). Haley revealed that she goes live almost every day, so she had a lot to share on how to use Facebook Live Video to grow your business, which led to a really great conversation between the two of us.

Here are the highlights:

2:15 How do you go from, “I’m terrified to be on camera.” to “Now, I’m going to rock this and own it!”

3:45 Why doing live video is perfect for people who are always trying to be perfect.

5:00 What’s a good way to get more people to watch your live videos?

8:00 Why right now is the best time to start doing live video.

9:15 Should you create your own Facebook Group?

11:00 Should you broadcast to a Business page or your Group page?

12:35 What is the best selfie stick for live video?

15:00 How to use a selfie stick to do live videos at a conference to grow your audience.

16:45 The 5 Mistakes people make when they go live that keep them from getting clients

22:20 How to create your own format for your live stream.

23:55 Should you go live with your cat?

25:15 The Biggest Facebook Live Mistakes people are making when they go live.

35:25 Why Facebook Live is one of the most important tools for small business

Join my FREE Videomaking Mastermind Group on Facebook.

https://www.facebook.com/groups/videomakingmastermind/

 

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How to do a 2 Person Broadcast on Facebook Live Stream

It’s here! Now you can do a 2 person broadcast on Facebook live stream. Today I want to tell you about something I’m really excited about which is the new feature that Facebook Live has rolled out recently that allows you to do 2 person broadcast on Facebook Live. You can even do Facebook Live with multiple presenters.

The cool thing about it is that it gives this fabulous reach. Every time you do a 2 person broadcast, your live stream is going to be shared to all of your guest’s followers.

So try this out on your own. Do a Facebook live stream with 2 people.

And then don’t forget to join my FREE Videomaking Mastermind group on Facebook

https://www.facebook.com/groups/videomakingmastermind